I have been doing a lot of cardistry lately and some moves are HARD AFFFFFFF, but I never complain, because...
I see a lot of teenagers and even kids who are still in elementary school learning and doing cardistry, and I do not see them complain about difficulties. They just practice until they get it down even if it is much harder for them due to their smaller hands.
Look up @sybfaes or @adamsharp on Instagram. They will BLOW YOUR MIND.
Other than them, I also have seen a lot of kids who do cardistry and they are actually really good. If you follow me on Instagram, you should have seen a video of an 11-year-old kid doing cull better than 99% magicians in the world.
Even these little kids are not complaining about the size of their hands, but I have received too many complains from teenagers or even 20+ year old people whining about their “disadvantages”.
I got this friend who has hands of a teenage girl does one of the best DPS. I won’t say who he is but you know who I am talking about hahahahahaha
His hands are extremely small and skinny but he manages to do all sorts of palms and other moves perfectly. He cannot palm a card without a corner of the card sticking out of his hand, so he opens up his fingers and always angle his hand so he won’t flash while making the hand look natural. Just like JW Grip in coin magic.
Kainoa Harbottle has huge windows in his hands so he cannot finger palm much, but he also became one of the best coin magician out there by overcoming his window issue.
With all that said, if you are one of the "complainer", please least try to find a solution for your “problems” before giving up and complain.